Relationships how to survive

I think you should be able to trade your partner in every 10 years or so before the fire goes out. What do you recon??

Well being in a relationship for 22 years is a long time and I have always said that you don't need to be madly in love with someone to marry them, you just need to be able to get along.

When you stop getting along it's time to trade them in.

Today the young go through the same things everyone does at their age, I'm talking 16 to 29 where you don't really know the truth about relationships.

At 16 the first guy/girl you fall for is the only one you want to be with and at 29 if you are not still with that first guy/girl you still think about him/her from time to time and wonder.

Stop wondering, there is a reason you are not together and thank goodness that you broke up, you were not meant to be with that person. If your heart still aches for them try to get over it.

By the time you are 40 you will understand that it was such a waste of time being hurt, upset and loving the wrong person. By the time you have had kids you will see that the person you had them with was the right one for those kids. You may also realise that, that, was the only right thing about them, to conceive those kids.

It's such a shame that once a relationship breaks down and there are children involved the kids get used by the parents in many way's. Realise those kids were brought into the world by you and you should give them the best upbringing you can don't use them against your ex partner. It's not their fault you fell out of love with their father/mother.
The sadest things is what we read in the news these day's of parents throwing their kids of bridges. How can a father do that to his kids, I don't understand how they can hurt the person they once loved and the children by the act.

Obviously they are not survivors of relationships, learn how to survive without taking it out on the kids or the ex partner. Learn how to protect your children from the crimes they may commit if they see it's ok for you to beat her/him up, the child will do that too.

Remember that you had the child with that partner so you must have loved them at once stage in your life, give that love to your kids now. And if you didn't why did you sleep with them? I'm not talking about women that conceived out of rape. That is sad.

You don't need a partner, you can find a hundred and one other things to do other than spend time with someone you don't like anymore. If you are always fighting stop destroying the rest of your live and the lives of those around you. Leave Now.

I still think trade them in once you feel it's over, the kids will adjust and as long as you don't put your ex down infront of them, they will learn for themself the reason's you left. Kids grow up and leave the home, they will have their own relationships to deal with and as much as you try to tell them about love and hurt they won't listen.

If you feel you are hurt, leave the situations. If you are being abused in a relationship take your kids and run as no one deserves this.

If you are staying because of the kids, there is help for single parents don't waste the rest of your life in an unhappy relationship.

On the other hand if you are happy with your partner stay with them and enjoy being one of the survivors of the fittest in a relationship.